Learning to drive and earning a license are major milestones for Richmond teens. While the experience is usually exciting for kids, it can be nerve-wracking for parents. From navigating I-95 traffic to handling hectic school drop-off lines and unpredictable weather, there’s a lot your teen needs to master before driving solo.
Driving has significant benefits—like independence and exposure to real-world situations—but safety is the top concern for most parents. The key to preparing your teen to be a confident, responsible driver is supervised practice—lots of it.
Repetition builds muscle memory, helping teens develop skills like merging onto highways or parallel parking until they become second nature. Supervised sessions also provide real-world experience that books can’t teach, like managing rush hour on I-64 or detouring through Carytown construction.
Of course, not every parent feels like a natural driving coach. If supervising becomes stressful, consider asking a co-parent, relative, or trusted friend to help, or enroll your teen in a reputable driver’s ed course. Sometimes, teens are more receptive to professional guidance.
With that foundation, here are ten essential road safety lessons every Richmond teen should learn before and after they hit the road.
- Always Buckle Up—No Exceptions
One of the very first lessons to teach your teen is simple: always buckle up—no matter how short the trip. It’s not just the law; it’s one of the easiest and most effective ways to stay safe on the road. And that goes for everyone in the car. Every passenger should be buckled up before the vehicle starts moving.
According to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA), seat belts reduce the risk of death by 45% and the risk of serious injury by 50% for front-seat passengers during a crash. Also, seat belts are designed to work with airbags. In fact, without a seat belt, airbags can cause injury rather than prevent it.
Parents should model this behavior every time they get in a car. Leading by example reinforces good habits for younger drivers. And if your teen needs a quick reminder, stick with this one-liner: “Click it or risk it.” Not buckling up can mean fines at best or life-altering injuries at worst. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
- Learn to Share the Road with Motorcycles
Young drivers need to learn how to share the road with motorcyclists and bicyclists safely. These two-wheeled vehicles are smaller, harder to spot, and far more vulnerable in a crash. Even attentive drivers can be surprised by a motorcycle suddenly appearing, often because it’s partially hidden in a blind spot or masked by other vehicles.
Silkman law, a Phoenix motorcycle accident attorney notes, “Motorcyclists are far more likely than other motorists to be seriously injured in a collision. Crashes can leave motorcyclists with overwhelming medical bills, lost income, property damage, pain and suffering, and other losses.” Teaching your teen to watch for and respect motorcycles helps make the road safer for everyone.
Make sure your teen understands the importance of checking blind spots thoroughly and giving motorcycles, scooters, and bicycles extra space. Because of their compact size, it’s harder to judge a motorcycle’s speed. Motorcycles can also stop more quickly than cars, and tailgating one is especially dangerous and should be strongly discouraged.
Instilling respect and awareness of motorcycles early on helps your teen become a more responsible and cautious driver who looks out for everyone on the road.
- Put the Phone Away
While phones are integral to our daily lives, one of the times when you should put your phone away is while driving. Teens need to understand that no text, call, or notification is worth the risk. If your teen ever needs to use their phone while driving—for directions, responding to a message, or changing music—they should always pull over safely before doing so.
Some safe places to stop include:
- School parking lots (during non-peak hours).
- Gas stations.
- Shopping center parking lots.
- Residential side streets (with low traffic and legal parking).
- Rest areas along highways.
- Designated cell phone waiting lots (at airports or large venues).
Remind them that pulling over doesn’t mean stopping on the shoulder of a busy road unless it’s an emergency. The goal is to find a well-lit, low-traffic area where they’re not at risk of being hit or creating a hazard. Even better? Encourage your teen to set their phone to Do Not Disturb (DND) while driving and use voice-activated tools if they must interact with it at all.
- Understand the Dangers of Impaired Driving
Impaired driving is both dangerous and illegal. Teens must understand that driving under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or even certain medications puts lives at risk, including their own. They should also know never to get in a car with someone who is impaired.
Honest conversations are key. Talk to your teen about peer pressure, substance use, and the importance of always being sober before getting behind the wheel. Reinforce that it’s not just about avoiding trouble but also staying alive.
Help them understand the consequences: impaired driving can lead to license suspension, arrest, serious injury or death, and long-term impacts like college rejections or a criminal record. One poor decision can change everything.
Also, get to know your teen’s friends and the environments they spend time in. Make sure they’re surrounded by peers who respect the rules and value safety. And perhaps most importantly, model responsible behavior yourself. If you drink, do so responsibly and make it clear that drunk driving is never acceptable for anyone.
- Know Basic Car Maintenance
Every driver should learn the basics of car maintenance. This includes checking tire pressure, changing a flat tire, topping off essential fluids like oil and windshield washer fluid, and understanding dashboard warning lights. Doing these will help prevent unexpected breakdowns and keep the vehicle running smoothly.
It’s also essential to prepare for roadside emergencies. Make sure there’s a basic emergency kit in the trunk, including a flashlight, jumper cables, water, a phone charger, and a first-aid kit. Remind your teen to always charge their phone before heading out and never to accept a ride from a stranger if stranded.
What your teen should do if their car breaks down:
On a side street:
- Pull over to a safe, legal spot, preferably under a streetlight if it’s dark.
- Turn on hazard lights.
- Stay inside the car with the doors locked while waiting for help.
- Call a trusted adult or roadside service.
On a highway like I-295:
- Stay calm.
- Signal and carefully pull over to the shoulder, as far to the right as possible and away from traffic.
- Turn on hazard lights immediately.
- Use reflective triangles if it’s safe to exit the car.
- Stay in the vehicle with seatbelts fastened unless it’s clearly safer to get out.
- Call roadside assistance, a parent, or 911 if you feel unsafe or need help.
Other important tips:
Adjust for Weather Conditions: Richmond’s weather can change quickly, from downpours to icy mornings in winter. Teach your teen how to drive in the rain, handle black ice, and slow down when visibility is low or roads are slick.
Practice Night Driving Carefully: Driving at night is harder for everyone, especially new drivers. Make sure your teen practices driving after dark in both well-lit areas and darker rural roads—like those in Goochland or Powhatan counties—so they feel confident no matter where they go.
Learn Defensive Driving: Defensive driving is a must in an area like Richmond, where city traffic, rural routes, and unpredictable drivers all intersect. Teach your teen to stay alert, maintain space, and prepare for the unexpected.
